July 3, 2015

ARE YOU INVESTING IN EVERY ASPECT OF YOU Part 2

So back at end of the 2010 Amy and I decided to make a huge move and relocate to Dallas. At the time, Amy was an accountant and I was a financial analyst by day and personal trainer by night. Both of us were on our way to getting promoted in our positions before giving notice. Most of our friends thought we were nuts but we decided very quickly, packed up necessary items, sold what we didn’t need, and put our condo on the market. Did I mention we were also in about $30k in debt from condo renovations that we shouldn’t have done when the real estate market took a nose dive? Yep….Anyhow Amy moved down first (with no guarantees) and quickly landed an accounting position with a large oil and gas company…I followed about 3 weeks later. Amy’s income allowed us to move into an apartment in Plano (we stayed with her parents for a couple of weeks). Then a month later a huge shift for better and worse occurred….Amy was miserable at her new position and insisted that she needed to quit because it was as she always says “robbing her soul.” Soooo…..Ray has no job, we have apartment expenses and other debt and Amy wants to quit. What do we do now?? Well, let me tell you….my logical mind told me that’s a dumb idea but at the time we were both in a period of our lives where we 100% committed to no longer doing things that didn’t make us happy. It was also a time where we were studying lots of mindset speakers…..Soooo…….Having seen how miserable and unexcited Amy was (which was completely against her nature), we both mutually decided that it was time for her to quit. We told ourselves “ahhhh we got this far, we’ll make it happen.” Shortly after the stress of no income began to build and build and build…some days I would sit at home pacing waiting for the phone to ring…some days I was extremely irritable because I lacked a true purpose…I was jumping from silly job to silly job but kept failing or feeling 100% unfulfilled. Of course in the middle of all this I was still studying training and nutrition info to keep my mind off the waiting game at times. I kept taking 100% commission sales positions for a few days because I told myself “I can sell anything.” And I was desperate but life kept redirecting me because it just wasn’t happening. I was making close to no $ because my heart just wasn’t in it and I was chasing dollars with no passion. And I kept avoiding personal training positions that required you to go through a training period with no pay before training because I needed quick $. Luckily Amy and I are a little crazy: P so we decided “hey….there’s a shortage of elementary school tutors (at least that’s what was being advertised). Let just go do that.” We both took $8/hr tutoring positions to make ends meet with a company that worked with schools in South Dallas. Amy lasted about 3 months and my tutoring career was much shorter lived(3 days)….Let’s just say I got very frustrated with how the kids were being taught to just memorize ways aka shortcuts to answer state tests versus actually learning the material. It just felt like a waste of time since the kids weren’t really learning. (Principles are principles :)

So in the midst of all this…..Amy and I were still eating organic food and produce. We were vegan at the time but we were still shopping at Natural Grocers and Whole Foods, buying essentials only but ALWAYS high quality. We cut back everywhere else. There was no going out, no cable, no manicures and pedicures, no extra anything……We were living paycheck to paycheck in debt but we valued health so much that we still found time to eat right and workout (at the apartment gym). We were ALWAYS spending the majority of our $ on groceries, buying in bulk when needed. We were so committed to it we would let credit card payments, car payments, etc go late and spend on groceries. I remember knowing all the loopholes in terms of credit card and car payments like the car payment loans were allowed to be 30-60 days late without hitting your credit report so I would purposely build that into our budget...It’s amazing what you will do when pushed to the limit. As I sit here writing this, Amy just mentioned she recalls “I remember putting a $3 protein bar back on the shelf because it wasn’t in our budget.” We had both come from the standard American diet before making a major health shift a couple years before and just knew what it was worth to take care of yourself first. It was all or nothing when it came to our health…..


So what’s the point of telling you this quick story……It’s not to tell you to go in debt to spend on food. It’s not that we are any different from an average person. But when you start on your health journey to eating better and it seems like it’s becoming costly do you think about how expensive it is first?…consider how much it’s costing you in other areas…Are you ok with spending $10 to $15 on a movie but you’re not ok with spending $5 on a dozen of pasture raised eggs? Or $30 plus on nails but skip organic produce because it costs an extra couple of dollars. Which of those choices are contributing more value to your life. Many say eating healthy is so expensive but are you really allocating as much as possible towards your health or is it one of the last things on your list. How much of a priority are you putting on your health? Is it really that important to you? Are you saying you want something but your actions speak otherwise? There are more lessons than that wrapped up in this story but sometimes we need to lose it all before realizing we already have what we need to achieve it all. Now it doesn’t have to be a dramatic situation that gets you to change but when you look at your finances are you spending as much as you can on your health or are you allocating it to things that in one, three, or ten years from now won’t even matter? Health is true wealth.


To end the story…..after quitting the tutoring positions, Amy landed a pre-k teaching position and my career as a full time personal trainer (as an employee) began at Fitness Together Allen now known as Infinity Personal Training…..and the rest is history……

 

Invest in the right things and everything will always turn around :)

 

“Do you want to know who you are? Don't ask. Act! Action will delineate and define you.” – Thomas Jefferson

 

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P.S.~ I have been speaking with many people in the last couple weeks who are going through struggles, times of uncertainty and a feeling of sort of being lost. I've also met with a few people 1-on-1 and have been testing some new methods of coaching. We will be launching a life changing weekend event soon geared towards resetting your whole life, breaking down the walls of struggle, and getting back on a path of true health in every aspect of your life! If you’re struggling with something shoot me an email at cattaneo.ray@gmail.com ! Or if you feel like you need a jumpstart with working out and nutrition contact us for a strategy session and trial week by going to the contact us page!

 

 

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